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Pilgrimage – Looking Back, Looking Forward

Despite the extreme heat in week 1 and some long days in week 2, the 2025 Jubilee Pilgrimage of Hope successfully reached Eastbourne on 22 August, having visited every deanery in the Arundel & Brighton Diocese, plus the Cathedral, marking 50 years since our first pilgrimage.

Our hall planners had found us decent accommodation, albeit sometimes with limited facilities. The day planners had found clever routes through suburbia (both in Surrey and the south coast) and led us safely through some lovely countryside – the heathland south of Farnham and the Seven Sisters being most dramatic. We were well supported by our caterers (Penny, Hazel, Bruce & Imelda), by John in the Van, and by Clare and Fr Paul who met us on the road – so important in the heat with the risk of heatstroke. We had a good number of pilgrims, each of whom contributes something unique, and lots of day pilgrims (some from local churches, some past pilgrims). Many people came out to meet us and provide refreshments at church stops. Overall a very good pilgrimage.

So now our attention turns to next year! Gary collected suggestions for routes / destinations which were put up for voting on the rest days. These are:

  • Blackburn to Durham
  • York to Blackburn
  • Winchester to Ely
  • Blackburn to Isle of Man
  • Norwich
  • Hereford 
  • Southampton to Canterbury
  • Offa’s Dyke

If you’ve not already voted, you can express your preference (up to 3 choices) by leaving a comment on this post. These will be added to the votes already recorded, and the AGM will consider the 3 front runners.

Talking of the AGM, we’ve had to move the date, so it is now on Sunday 14th September 2025 at 2pm, as a Zoom meeting. The AGM is open to ALL pilgrims, past and present. If you would like to join, and aren’t on the current committee, please let me know (comment on this post, use “contact the pilgrims”, or e-mail me directly if you have my address). I will share the Zoom link nearer the meeting.

The AGM includes looking back at this year’s pilgrimage (what went well, what we could have done better, etc). You can provide written feedback by email (if you were there you’ll have my email from messages about T shirts, diary, etc).

After the wash-up, I hand over to the new coordinator, Gary, for the discussion about next year.

Please do engage in this process it’s YOUR pilgrimage, not just the committee’s!!

Hope to see many of you at the AGM.

Aidan
Coordinator (for a few more days)

Jubilee Pilgrimage of Hope

Our 2025 Pilgrimage, the Jubilee Pilgrimage of Hope, which visits all of the deaneries of Arundel & Brighton Diocese (and churches of all denominations along the way) is only 10 days away. The web diary is ready at https://thepilgrims.org.uk/2025 and contains details of our route, stops and timings together with downloadable information for pilgrims and followers. Those who have booked should have received this information by e-mail – if you’ve not received it, please get in touch.

Bookings for this year have now closed, but if you can come and meet us on the way that would be great. The route cards / website will tell you where to find us, and when. How well we keep to time does depend on the weather of course!

As ever we are still finalising arrangements here and there, so things might change a little. We’ll try to keep the website up to date!

If you’re walking with us this year, it’s time to study the Pilgrim Code, prepare your equipment, and do some final training walks.

If you’re not able to walk with us this year, please pray for us, as we will for you, and from 9 August follow our progress on the web diary.

And if you’re able to meet us along the route, we look forward to seeing you!

2025 Pilgrimage T-Shirts – ACT FAST!

To mark the significance of this year’s 50th Anniversary pilgrimage we’ve decided to produce a commemorative T-shirt. We need to move quickly to ensure they are delivered before the pilgrimage, so if you’re interested please order today – final deadline is 20th July.

The logo for the t-shirt has been designed for us by the diocese, based on ideas from the pilgrimage team. It features a cross with the anchor of hope, an allusion to the hills we walk over, and orange arrows.

This logo will be printed front centre on white T-shirts.

The printers offer many choices, but we are proposing 3 options (below). Sizes are taken from the printers’ website, and each product is linked to their product description.

Pricing is dependent on the number of orders, but we hope to keep it down to £15 per shirt, including VAT. Definitely not over £18 without consulting those who’ve ordered.

Ordering: If you would like to order one or more t-shirts, please e-mail t2025@thepilgrims.org.uk quoting your name and the type and size of each shirt. Payment on collection when you join the pilgrimage, but as these are made to order you are making a commitment to pay.

Deadline: In order to receive the shirts before the pilgrimage, we need to place the order on 21 July, so ALL ORDERS MUST BE RECEIVED BY 20 JULY.

50-Year Reunion – Live!

Our reunion to celebrate 50 years of pilgrimages is underway. You can follow us in our usual diary at www.thepilgrims.org.uk/2025/reunion50.php

The slides shared at the reunion appear below. Enjoy!

  • Ecumenical Walking Pilgrimage - 50 Years
  • 1975 Holy Year Pilgrimage
  • 1975 Leaving Arundel
  • 1975 Ash in the rain
  • 1975 Arundel Park with Bishop Michael
  • 1976 Pilgrims Way Pilgrimage
  • 1976 Leaving Arundel
  • 1976 Lunch at Slindon
  • 1976 Mass at Winchester Cathedral
  • 1976 Sleeping outside in Winchester
  • 1976 An early sing-song
  • 1976 The St Francis Ramblers
  • 1976 Crossing the Medway in a pinnace
  • 1976 Approaching Canterbury Cathedral

2025 Jubilee Pilgrimage of Hope – Join Us, and Spread the Word

Bookings have recently opened for our 2025 Walking Pilgrimage, the Jubilee Pilgrimage of Hope, taking place from 9th to 24th August 2025. Join us in celebrating 50 years of walking pilgrimages, 60 years of the Arundel & Brighton Diocese, and the Holy Year proclaimed by Pope Francis. Crossing varied terrain across Surrey and Sussex, the route visits every Deanery in the Diocese, together with churches of many denominations that we pass on the way. The pilgrimage is open to all – we already welcome pilgrims of many faiths and from around the world. You can join for a day (or less), a few days, or the whole 2 weeks. Organised entirely by volunteers, our pilgrimages are very affordable.

Our 2025 publicity material is now available to download – please share and/or print and display, and encourage your friends to consider joining us.

Poster

Poster (inkjet friendly)

Social Media Tile

More details of what’s involved can be found on our booking system.

Diaries of our past pilgrimages, which give a good idea of just how enjoyable and fulfilling the pilgrimages are, can be found here.

If you still have questions, contact us (details on the booking system) and we’ll do our best to help.

50 years ago today…

On 31 March, Easter Monday 1975, 25 intrepid pilgrims set out from Arundel Cathedral to “beat the bounds” of the Arundel & Brighton Diocese, marking the 1975 Holy Year and the 10th Anniversary of the creation of the Diocese. Little did we know what we were getting ourselves into!

Taking place after an early Easter rather than in August as in later years, we encountered quite a lot of weather. There was snow lying on the South Downs on the first day; heavy rain most of day 3 as we traipsed across Ash Ranges; a blizzard in far East Sussex as we approached Rye. It was weather we were ill equipped for, but it didn’t dampen our spirits.

As we followed the coast West from Rye towards Brighton we started doing “Ring-a-Ring-o-Roses” at each pier we passed. I suspect this started as an attempt to keep warm as we waited for the pilgrims to regroup, but it became part of our identity. On the final day back into Arundel, Bishop Michael Bowen and his dog Jamie walked with us. As we came through Arundel Park approaching our destination, holding hands in a line across the valley, we stopped for one more “Ring-a-Ring-o-Roses”. Most of the pilgrims were still at school, a few of university age, a few older. We were delighted to see that even Bishops “all fall down”.

And that was the start of a 50-year journey, still continuing. For the many youngsters involved in those early years it was a cheap, fun holiday but also a relaxed encounter with their faith. Over the decades our demographic has evolved, but that core quality has remained. It is a religious activity, a pilgrimage, but not only for the converted. So many people, at different stages of their faith journey or even on different paths altogether, have walked with us, brought blessings to us, and been blessed by us. We often encounter pilgrims-of-old who no longer walk with us, but they always remember the pilgrimage fondly: everyone has some recollection of their time “following the orange arrows”.

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From the very start we stopped at churches of all denominations on the pilgrimage, and welcomed pilgrims whatever their background (2 girls from the Baptist Church walked that first pilgrimage). In 1981 we joined forces with Churches Together in Sussex to celebrate St Wilfrid, Apostle of Sussex, and the pilgrimage became officially ecumenical. The manifestation of ecumenism has also evolved over the years, but it’s core to our identify, even in a year when we’re celebrating our roots on Arundel & Brighton Diocese.

The years have taken us to so many places – grand cathedrals, humble chapels, urban landscapes and all kinds of countryside. Not to mention the pubs! With our visit to Rutland in 2024 we have probably visited every (traditional) English county, and many in Wales. We’ve enjoyed great hospitality, overcome some huge challenges and a couple of tragedies. We’ve become a community on the move – both literally and evolving as things change around us. But we are all pilgrims at heart, ready to stand up and sing “He who would valiant be” at the drop of a hat and to follow the orange arrows that will lead us home.

We have so much to be thankful for: the “founding Fathers” Bill Haynes, Bob Garrard and Hans Burgman; those who took up the baton when Bill needed to take a back seat; pioneers and leaders including Alan Fox, Patrick Reeve and Peter Doran (and all those who’ve taken on the Coordinator’s role); all those who worked on the support team shifting our kit, keeping us fed, watered and safe, finding accommodation and routes; the locals who have opened churches, led us in prayer, provided refreshments; and EVERY SINGLE PILGRIM who has brought their own contribution to the pilgrimage.

50 years on, we thank God for the blessings we have received and pray for the success of our 2025 pilgrimage and those to follow.

To find out more about our 2025 Jubilee Pilgrimage of Hope, visit https://thepilgrims.org.uk/book/

For more general information and diaries of our past pilgrimages, visit https://thepilgrims.org.uk/wp/

Jubilee Pilgrimage of Hope 2025: Bookings Open

Surrey Hills and Sussex by the Sea

Bookings are now open for the Jubilee Pilgrimage of Hope in August 2025. Celebrating 50 years of our walking pilgrimages, 60 years of the Arundel & Brighton Diocese, and the Holy Year, this pilgrimage will visit all of the deaneries of the Diocese, whilst continuing our ecumenical tradition by stopping at churches of many denominations along the way.

All are welcome to join the pilgrimage and experience walking as part of our travelling Christian community, whether for a fortnight or just an afternoon!  The cost is £350 to walk with us all the way, or £33 per night to book a shorter spell (£31 per night for 7 days or more, 25% discount for under 21s).  “Day Pilgrims” pay just £5.

The route covers varied terrain, including the Surrey Hills, the South Downs, and the Sussex Coast. These are our stopping points – further details are available in the booking system.

  • Horley (Crawley Deanery)
  • Reigate (Redhill Deanery)
  • Ashtead (Epsom Deanery)
  • Weybridge (Weybridge Deanery)
  • Frimley (Woking Deanery)
  • Farnham (Guildford Deanery)
  • Haslemere (Guildford Deanery)
  • Midhurst (Cathedral Deanery)
  • Tangmere (Cathedral Deanery)
  • Goring-by-Sea (Worthing Deanery)
  • Brighton (Brighton Deanery)
  • Seaford (Lewes Deanery)
  • Eastbourne (Eastbourne & St Leonards Deanery)

Modern health and safety considerations mean we cannot squeeze as many people into church / village halls as we used to, which makes it a bit more comfortable than previously but means that numbers may have to be limited. Therefore I would urge early booking to avoid disappointment.

This year we are hoping that parishioners of the deaneries we are passing through will come and join us for some or all of a day. In order to manage numbers we are asking day pilgrims to pre-book this year. This ensures everyone is covered by the Diocesan insurance and we can do appropriate risk assessments.

If you have questions, please address them to our bookings secretary Clare (contact details on the booking page). If you’ve not been before, Clare notes that it is often easier to chat on the phone than exchange emails. If you are thinking of coming for the first time, look at our diaries from previous years which give a good flavour of what goes on, and read the information on the booking page. Oh, “read the information on the booking page” applies to old hands too!

To read more and to make your booking, please visit https://thepilgrims.org.uk/book/

Howard Buxton, RIP

We heard from Howard’s wife Alison that Howard passed away peacefully on Wednesday 19th March 2025 with the family
around him. Howard had been unwell for some time, but kept in touch with several pilgrims.

I think Howard may have been the first pilgrim to join us having found our website, which we started in 2000. Howard was all set to come and walk with us in 2001, and was a bit put out when we had to cancel that year because of the Foot and Mouth outbreak. But he did join us the following year and was a regular pilgrim over the next 20 or so years. Given the distance from NZ to UK, that probably means Howard travelled more miles over the years to join the pilgrimage that anyone else has or ever will.

It didn’t take Howard long to find out how the pilgrimage works!

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Howard – working as usual, 2002

Howard, leading a reflection in 2003

Or standing in as an arrow…

Howard with Bernie, a year later, same t-shirt!

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In 2005, Howard had had enough and collapsed in someone’s front garden outside Caterham!

Approaching Winchester in 2005, with Rev Chris at a kissing gate, the self-styled “Kissing Fr Christmases”

2006, as van-packer-in-chief

And so we might go on… when I have time to trawl through more of the archives.

We send our prayers and condolences to Alison. May Howard rest in peace.

A memorial gathering will be held 11am 12th April 2025 at RSA Birkenhead, Recreation Drive, Birkenhead, Auckland, NZ.

Cath Grafen, RIP

We’ve learnt of the death on 28 February of Cath Grafen, who walked with us between 1979 and 1981 then 1996 to 2002. In 2000 or 2002 Cath and the late Pat Heffernan earned the nickname the “wrinkly rockets” for their pace, especially in the afternoons.

From 1979 Canterbury 2 Pilgrimage

From 2000 St Chad’s Pilgrimage:

In our 2000 diary I found “Cath Grafen gave a wonderful reflection on her involvement with the pilgrimage, starting as the parent of a pilgrim in 1976, with lots of different experiences on the way, and the love and support of all the pilgrims. We concluded with a chorus of Bind Us Together.”

From 2002 Ss Chad & Cedd Pilgrimage

According to the church website, Cath’s funeral will be held at noon on Friday 28th March 2025 at Sacred Heart, Hove.

We send our prayers and condolences to Cath’s family. May she rest in peace.