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Pilgrimage Reunion / Taster Weekend Reminder
Come and join us!
There are still places available at this year’s A&B Walking Pilgrimage Reunion, which will take place on the weekend of 17th – 19th April in sunny Northamptonshire.
We welcome pilgrims who have joined us before, but also anybody who would like a “taster” of what a pilgrimage is like.
Further details attached, together with a booking form (invitation / booking form). The closing date for bookings is 31st March.
We look forward to seeing you!
Julian & Claire
The full details are in the invitation / booking form . The easiest way to apply is probably to cut and paste the booking form into an email, add your responses and email it to mini26@thepilgrims.org.uk (which automatically redirects to Julian and Claire’s address). Also please email if you are planning on going on the walk only. At this event, we hope to share the fun and fellowship of our pilgrimages with past, present and future pilgrims.
Funeral arrangements for Carol Pritchard (nee McMahon) who died just before Christmas
Carol’s funeral will be at noon on Tuesday, 3rd February at the RC Cathedral Church of St Michael and St George, Queens Avenue, Aldershot GU11 2BY and afterwards at the neighbouring St Andrews Scottish Garrison Church Hall. There is plenty of parking at the churches. Everyone is welcome. We will say farewell to Carol at the church and then we hope everyone will join us in the church hall to continue to celebrate Carol’s life and share our memories of her.
Carol Pritchard (née McMahon) RIP
We’ve learned of the death, on 16th December, of Carol Pritchard (née McMahon). Carol moved to Farnham in the early 70s and was involved in several of Bill Haynes’ youth activities before joining our Pilgrims Way Pilgrimage in 1976 and completing 6 consecutive A&B pilgrimage.
Carol was always keen to catch up with pilgrims, and turned up at several reunions, including the 40-year reunion in Farnham. She was a great singer.
Carol’s funeral will be at the RC Forces Cathedral of St Michael and St George in Aldershot on a date yet to be announced. Everyone who knew Carol will be welcome to attend.
May she rest in peace
Pilgrimage – Looking Back, Looking Forward
Despite the extreme heat in week 1 and some long days in week 2, the 2025 Jubilee Pilgrimage of Hope successfully reached Eastbourne on 22 August, having visited every deanery in the Arundel & Brighton Diocese, plus the Cathedral, marking 50 years since our first pilgrimage.
Our hall planners had found us decent accommodation, albeit sometimes with limited facilities. The day planners had found clever routes through suburbia (both in Surrey and the south coast) and led us safely through some lovely countryside – the heathland south of Farnham and the Seven Sisters being most dramatic. We were well supported by our caterers (Penny, Hazel, Bruce & Imelda), by John in the Van, and by Clare and Fr Paul who met us on the road – so important in the heat with the risk of heatstroke. We had a good number of pilgrims, each of whom contributes something unique, and lots of day pilgrims (some from local churches, some past pilgrims). Many people came out to meet us and provide refreshments at church stops. Overall a very good pilgrimage.
So now our attention turns to next year! Gary collected suggestions for routes / destinations which were put up for voting on the rest days. These are:
- Blackburn to Durham
- York to Blackburn
- Winchester to Ely
- Blackburn to Isle of Man
- Norwich
- Hereford
- Southampton to Canterbury
- Offa’s Dyke
If you’ve not already voted, you can express your preference (up to 3 choices) by leaving a comment on this post. These will be added to the votes already recorded, and the AGM will consider the 3 front runners.
Talking of the AGM, we’ve had to move the date, so it is now on Sunday 14th September 2025 at 2pm, as a Zoom meeting. The AGM is open to ALL pilgrims, past and present. If you would like to join, and aren’t on the current committee, please let me know (comment on this post, use “contact the pilgrims”, or e-mail me directly if you have my address). I will share the Zoom link nearer the meeting.
The AGM includes looking back at this year’s pilgrimage (what went well, what we could have done better, etc). You can provide written feedback by email (if you were there you’ll have my email from messages about T shirts, diary, etc).
After the wash-up, I hand over to the new coordinator, Gary, for the discussion about next year.
Please do engage in this process it’s YOUR pilgrimage, not just the committee’s!!
Hope to see many of you at the AGM.
Aidan
Coordinator (for a few more days)
2025 Pilgrimage T-Shirts – ACT FAST!
To mark the significance of this year’s 50th Anniversary pilgrimage we’ve decided to produce a commemorative T-shirt. We need to move quickly to ensure they are delivered before the pilgrimage, so if you’re interested please order today – final deadline is 20th July.
The logo for the t-shirt has been designed for us by the diocese, based on ideas from the pilgrimage team. It features a cross with the anchor of hope, an allusion to the hills we walk over, and orange arrows.

This logo will be printed front centre on white T-shirts.
The printers offer many choices, but we are proposing 3 options (below). Sizes are taken from the printers’ website, and each product is linked to their product description.
- 100% organic cotton T-Shirt in the following sizes: XS 30/32″, S 34/36″, M 38/40″, L 42/44″, XL 46/48″, 2XL 50/52″, 3XL 54/56”, 4XL 58/60”, 5XL 62/64”, 6XL 66/68”
- 100% Polyester Performance T-Shirt in the following sizes: S 34″, M 38″, L 42″, XL 46″, 2XL 50″, 3XL 54″
- 100% Organic Cotton V-neck WOMENS T-Shirt in the following sizes: XS 8, S 10, M 12, L 14, XL 16, 2XL 18/20
Pricing is dependent on the number of orders, but we hope to keep it down to £15 per shirt, including VAT. Definitely not over £18 without consulting those who’ve ordered.
Ordering: If you would like to order one or more t-shirts, please e-mail t2025@thepilgrims.org.uk quoting your name and the type and size of each shirt. Payment on collection when you join the pilgrimage, but as these are made to order you are making a commitment to pay.
Deadline: In order to receive the shirts before the pilgrimage, we need to place the order on 21 July, so ALL ORDERS MUST BE RECEIVED BY 20 JULY.
50-Year Reunion – Live!
Our reunion to celebrate 50 years of pilgrimages is underway. You can follow us in our usual diary at www.thepilgrims.org.uk/2025/reunion50.php
The slides shared at the reunion appear below. Enjoy!
50-Year Reunion
A reminder that, if you would like to join the 50-Year Reunion in Crawley on 5 April you need to book this week so that our caterers can prepare.
To book, please email reunion50@thepilgrims.org.uk
For further details, see the original post https://thepilgrims.org.uk/wp/50-year-reunion-5-april-2025/
Howard Buxton, RIP
We heard from Howard’s wife Alison that Howard passed away peacefully on Wednesday 19th March 2025 with the family
around him. Howard had been unwell for some time, but kept in touch with several pilgrims.
I think Howard may have been the first pilgrim to join us having found our website, which we started in 2000. Howard was all set to come and walk with us in 2001, and was a bit put out when we had to cancel that year because of the Foot and Mouth outbreak. But he did join us the following year and was a regular pilgrim over the next 20 or so years. Given the distance from NZ to UK, that probably means Howard travelled more miles over the years to join the pilgrimage that anyone else has or ever will.
It didn’t take Howard long to find out how the pilgrimage works!

Howard – working as usual, 2002

Howard, leading a reflection in 2003

Or standing in as an arrow…

Howard with Bernie, a year later, same t-shirt!

In 2005, Howard had had enough and collapsed in someone’s front garden outside Caterham!

Approaching Winchester in 2005, with Rev Chris at a kissing gate, the self-styled “Kissing Fr Christmases”

2006, as van-packer-in-chief

And so we might go on… when I have time to trawl through more of the archives.
We send our prayers and condolences to Alison. May Howard rest in peace.
A memorial gathering will be held 11am 12th April 2025 at RSA Birkenhead, Recreation Drive, Birkenhead, Auckland, NZ.
Cath Grafen, RIP
We’ve learnt of the death on 28 February of Cath Grafen, who walked with us between 1979 and 1981 then 1996 to 2002. In 2000 or 2002 Cath and the late Pat Heffernan earned the nickname the “wrinkly rockets” for their pace, especially in the afternoons.
From 1979 Canterbury 2 Pilgrimage

From 2000 St Chad’s Pilgrimage:


In our 2000 diary I found “Cath Grafen gave a wonderful reflection on her involvement with the pilgrimage, starting as the parent of a pilgrim in 1976, with lots of different experiences on the way, and the love and support of all the pilgrims. We concluded with a chorus of Bind Us Together.”

From 2002 Ss Chad & Cedd Pilgrimage

According to the church website, Cath’s funeral will be held at noon on Friday 28th March 2025 at Sacred Heart, Hove.
We send our prayers and condolences to Cath’s family. May she rest in peace.


































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































